Body shaming ;

Today I am going to talk about a sensitive topic for many people. Body Shaming has been a thing for a long time . You may ask What is body shaming ? It is a action of humiliating someone about their body shape and size . Everybody goes through it if it is not you then your friends or someone you are really close with could go through this . Well , let me tell you , I've went through it as well [ in school ] , but you can do nothing about it [ that's what they said ] , it can be stopped easily if we raise our voices against it . I don't want to be rude or anything but body shaming starts from our elders, if a thin or a fat persons walks by they would start to say things out loud that you shouldn't say , making the other person feel humiliated , then this same action will be passed to kids , kids will start humiliating others . Why? Because kids learn from elders . 

Before saying something rude to someone , look at yourself first . They say to taste your bitter medicine first, before spitting it out . You do not have a right to degrade a person to such a level that they hate themselves.

Okay, let us think this way , you body shame a person and leave making fun of him/her /them , do you think the person who you made fun of forgot everything, or you think that he/she/they don't have any emotions . You know what you did , you made that person feel hurt , you made that person cry , you made that person hate themselves even more  . And let me ask you , what kind of satisfaction you got ? If you think you made yourself feel better by making fun of someone .... then that is the worst mindset ever . Even if you say , i was ''joking'' , making fun of someone's body is not a ''JOKE'' . 

Now I am going to say that those people who are body shamed, you are the most beautiful person ever , you are super nice , kind , awesome , lovely human being ever .

My Friend's Experience over body shaming ;

So I've a friend who dealt with body shaming to an extreme level ,[ let me tell you my friend is thin ] . Her friends let alone the teachers as well body shamed her . Yeah, can you believe teachers body shaming . Teachers used to call her a name, Matchstick , she would just laugh off like nothing happened , but I knew what she went through [ I won't go in detail , because of personal reasons ] . Well the name , matchstick , got stick to her because of those teachers , everybody would call her that , they used to overpower her like they knew she didn't have enough power , so she would not say anything , whenever I said to her to say something to them to shut them up , she will say , let them be , afterall we are going to finish school in 1 year . She has the most patience , if it was me I would've slapped everyone . 

Body types which people tend to become more like or just like it ;

The famous , Barbie like body is extremely liked ,

long neck , thin legs and arms , small waist and curvy body . 

Words for people who body shame[politely] ;

If you are body shaming someone , without thinking how bad it is , then put yourself in their shoes , think yourself as one getting body shamed , would you like that ? Ask yourself that , What am i doing ? Why am I doing this ? Why am i hurting him/her/them ? In the end we are all humans, we have to die in the end [that got deep quick] , so why not die peacefully without hurting someone , let's make this world a happy place , without judging someone, without objectifying someone , the world be such better place ....

Bye...Bye...💓💓💓